Like everyone else, every man needs his own space to rejuvenate, get knowledge, and mentorship to help him grow and develop his capacities. Manosphere space is all about becoming a man of value, and its objective is to uphold men to be the best version of themselves without creating hatred towards women.

A man of value versus A man of Success

One of Albert Einstein’s wisdom quotes says, “Try not to be a man of success but a man of value.”

The difference between a high-value man and a man of value has long been misunderstood. A man of value refers to a person who upholds higher respect for himself and others. He has high integrity, self-control and he knows his boundaries well. He will never conform to anything that jeopardizes his principles of life.

Men of value are men who know how to add value to their job, family, and community. Having great wealth can only make you a high-value man; that is just a tiny fraction of the bigger picture. Real success is not about what you’ve accumulated; and it’s about what you can offer to others.

Giving a helping hand to others is the most humane act in the manosphere space, and you should do it irrespective of gender, age, race, or social status.

Attributes of a “man of value.”

Good attributes make a man of value, and he’s known for his character and responsiveness in executing his responsibilities. He understands his success, works to improve on his flaws, and demonstrates good personal standards.

A man of value also values, appreciates, and takes care of his family while challenging himself to be better every day. He gives his best to build an ideal culture and to bring light where there is darkness. Exemplary attributes are the building block and the real strength of any family.

Important of Sacrificing for your family.

A man of value knows the importance of sacrificing his time, money, and other resources to make his wife, children, and future more prosperous. Success is associated with doing things that are not fun, giving away your pleasures, and channeling your energy to something that will help you create a prosperous future for yourself and your family.

Success equals sacrifice, and differentiating things that bring short-term pleasure with a long-term gain is essential in the manosphere space. As a man of value, you should be prepared to miss things that will make you happy or give you pleasure for a little while for something beneficial in the long run.

Fatherhood is the most significant of All.

Manosphere upholds the importance of men in raising children as women are. Their presence contributes to a significant impact on the child’s life that cannot be underrated. Children raised by both parents do better in life than those raised by a single parent.

Fatherless children are more prone to depression, disruptive behaviors, and prosocial behaviors, and the best environment is the one that has responsible, committed, and stable parenting.

Go For It! Build your Stability in your family.

You don’t need to do extraordinary things to be a man of value, and you cannot be a man of value without knowing what matters in your life and the life of those around you and acting accordingly.

Your life matter as your family does. Building your character, providing fatherhood needs to your children; will help you thrive in your personal life and family life. Manosphere is all about becoming valuable, creating value, and cultivating value from those around you.

*****To, hear more about how to become a man of value. You can check out related podcasts and others on The Jason .V. Holmes Podcast, a top-rated weekly podcast that talks about economics, world events, life in Korea, the manosphere, entrepreneurship, the book I’m writing, and more. The podcast is for people who like and can appreciate rational thinking with a touch of a military man’s humor. Listen now to your favorite podcast!

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Jason V. Holmes

Jason V. Holmes

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